Women are fragile creatures that deserve to be
handled with care but at times if you care about someone too much, you might
end up hurting yourself and therefore getting out of a relationship that you are
not happy with, is the only thing that can help you to find true happiness.
However, that may be a little bit hard especially if you don’t want to hurt
her. But you don’t need to worry as there are some few ways that you can use to
break up with her and she will even be grateful for it.
One of the simplest ways is to let her break up with
you. But if you don’t work on it, she might never break up with you and so you
need to take matters into your own hands and hasten the process. Letting her
break up with you, therefore, requires you to do stuff that makes her start
reconsidering her position in the relationship. Some of this stuff may include
creating a certain barrier between you two without making her think that you
are cheating on her as most ladies would conclude that you are cheating if you
start acting in a weird way. Once you have done this successfully, she will
start to think that she is not very well appreciated and she will just break up
with you.
Another way that you can use is to ask for a relationship
break from which mostly ends up in a breakup. Though if you are planning to use
this way, you need to be very careful as any wrong step can make her get badly
hurt emotionally or even leave you looking like a moron and therefore you need
to come up with convincing reasons as to why you need a break in the
relationship and if she agrees, then you are one step out of a relationship.
You will, therefore, need to make this situation permanent and therefore
knowing what she likes in you, it’s now time to completely change that to
ensure that she will not desire to be with you anymore and that she will
utilize her time looking for someone else instead of waiting for you.

The above tow ways are very effective when it come
to making her break up with you but if you like things done faster, you can
always go for the traditional cold way of ending things with her which will
mostly leave you looking guilty if she ends up emotionally traumatized. But
whichever the case if a relationship is not working and you have tried to make
it work to no success, then it means it has to end no matter how much she cares
about you or even the past that you guys share because all that matters is the
future that you are going to have with her and if it doesn’t look promising or
happy, then just make a stop to that relationship.


  1. If you know that your girlfriend is wrong for you, then it is time to end the relationship. That can sound easy at first, but can be very difficult to execute, especially if you are afraid of breaking her heart

    1. Maybe she is too comfortable to make a decision. Don’t feel guilty about breaking up, because you’ll only be saving both of you a lot of trouble in the long run.

  2. Even if you don’t want to hurt a woman, you will still hurt her when she feels that you are no longer interested in your relationship. So…be honest. She’s not stupid. She feels what you want but she ignores it because she loves you. Maybe she just wants you to feel that she loves you so much.

  3. Oh my God, I have done this before and is so painful, I like that you show a way to say this kind of things but the pain still there. I cannot think in such a nice way to say something like this, even though you did a really good job here.

  4. All guys out there, the above ways are very effective when it come
    to making a girl break up with you without hurting her but if you like things done faster you can use a cold method of just telling her that you are no more interested which can leads to breaking the heart of the girl and this method is very cruel.

  5. If you don’t love your girl anymore, tell her. Yes, she will get hurt but you have no choice. If she loves you, whatever you do will hurt her because it is painful to be dumped by the one you love. But that’s fine because you are being honest to yourself and to her. In the process, she will also recover and move on.

  6. Although little bit controversial topic to discuss, it’s a timely article for the modern world. You have the right to choose the right partner for you and for this breaking up is inevitable. But most find this hard to initiate and finally they screw it up. This is a place they should have read before jump into the process.

  7. There’s no easy way to break with a girl who loves you so much. But you need to be honest with yourself and with the person you once loved. You need to have a heart to heart talk. It won’t be easy for both of you especially if she still loves you but again, honesty is always the best policy.

  8. I don’t think there is any way you will do it that the girl will not be hurt. The only thing I suggest is to make it a gradual process. Don’t let it to be too quick because that will run her than emotionally. Let her see the signs coming. It’s not good to end a relationship anyways. Make sure you try harder to make it work. It’s the same person you once loved.

  9. If you think that there is a way to break up with someone without hurting her, you’re wrong. It can only be possible is she also wants to get out of the relationship and she’s just too scared to say it. Still, you should just tell her and so she could move on.

  10. Breaking up with your girl is something delicate as the article say all women’s are fragile so wellness to tell them something kind that we can hurt them in this article gives me some ideas how i can break up with mine.

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